I have had some time to think the last few days about what the Church is worth to me based on some conversations I have had with my brother-in-law while I was down visiting him for his daughters baptism. My brother-in-law was born and raised Catholic, then married a Mormon girl (my sister) and there is where this story really begins.
You know in the Church we always say to date those who have the same faith, and share the same beliefs. It is not because we are stuck up, or do not believe anyone else out there is worthy of us, it is because of major problems that could be faced down the road if you want to be staying faithful to the LDS Church.
For example, the family members (and their faith) of the other person, what faith the kids will be raised, how the family interactions will be, which church functions will family members go to (like baptisms) etc. Let me throw in another huge twist for you; what if your FIL (Father-in-law) was a Deacon at the Catholic Church, and was well known and respected. Also one who had been serving for many many years. These were some of the issues that my sister has faced over the years, and I mean just some of them.
I do not want to get into the specifics of what both her and my brother-in-law have had to go through, but it was pretty rough until recently, but I will share one thing. My sister knew that she wanted to raise her kids Mormon, and get married in the Temple. She got to the point (even though she loved her husband dearly, and I mean dearly) where she was ready to get a divorce because she feared that she would never get to enjoy all the blessings of the Church. Because of this, my brother-in-law figured out how important her faith was to her, and took it upon himself to learn more about this “Church” that was about to end his marriage.
Many sets of missionaries later, prayer, fasting and many many trials he learned of the truthfulness of the Gospel of Jesus Christ in the LDS Church and got baptized. I am giving you the cliff-notes as to what happened, but there were so many trials he and my sister faced together during those first few years of marriage. My brother-in-law was pretty much dis-owned by his family at first.
They have come a long way since then, and that is the point in this post. My sister, who was willing to give up the one she loved because of her faith was an example to her husband (a Catholic) who joined the Mormon Church, and (who probably could never see it happening at the time) last week saw his father (Catholic Deacon) step into a Mormon Church and watch his grandchild (my niece) get baptized (along with about 20 other of his family members - all Catholic).
My brother-in-law is such a powerful example to me in so many ways when it comes to sacrifices and the Church. My sister as well, and what she almost had to give up because of her convictions. Anything is possible with Jesus Chris, and this is proof as to his love for us, and awareness of our needs!
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